tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14083176.post2694849634050442536..comments2023-10-29T05:34:01.470-05:00Comments on The True Vyne: truevynehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05998290681038658399noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14083176.post-12712700652579961412011-01-09T11:52:57.742-06:002011-01-09T11:52:57.742-06:00It would have been good for my kids to have gone t...It would have been good for my kids to have gone through a period of hating me when they lived at home. DH and I stayed together so it's not the same thing but maybe your kids need for individuation is being fueled through their feelings about the divorce. I'm just guessing. I have no idea.I was 38 years old before I individuated.<br /><br />My daughter is living with her boyfriend who has no desire for kids. I've gone through various emotions and come to several conclusions. One of which was that I'd wanted her to have kids so that I could be redeemed. So that she could see that I had really, really tried to be a good mother.Hopehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02045801745534184703noreply@blogger.com